“Any time you sincerely want to make a change, the first thing you must do is to raise your standards” – Tony Robbins
Keep Finding yourself back in the same dating drama?
Desperate to stick to boundaries and let this person see you are not the kind of girl to accept ‘hot & cold’?
Wish this person would see you respect yourself and treat you the same way?
Want your love interest would understand if they keep treating you this way, they WILL lose you?
There is that knowing feeling when your standards are low – you know deep inside that this person keeps treating you this way because you keep breaking the promise that things have to change.
Every time you demand respect you mean it at the time.
Each time you tell your friends (and yourself) you are not going back there anymore, you mean it at the time.
Raising your standards can be scary – you are afraid of what you might lose if you actually stick to your boundaries. You worry there will be even fewer people to date, or you might lose the person you ‘love’ forever.
As you raise your standards you are making way for the person who is able to see your worth and treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Don’t be afraid of the change that comes with raising your standards, there may be some initial discomfort, slip ups, and uncertainty, but it won’t be long until you begin to feel strong and attract people of the same calibre.
Check out my video below where I am sharing how you can raise your standards TODAY…
I know you may be full of doubt and fear when it comes to changing, but on the other side is a whole other experience when it comes to being treated with respect, kindness, and warmth.
Get in touch and let me know how you intend to show up for yourself. If you seriously are struggling with this no matter how much you try, join my FB community below or apply for a Discovery Call with me and we can chat about what you need. (there are also plenty of videos to watch on my Insta too)
Carly Ann xx